Updated: Nov 17, 2022
1. Stop believing the lie.
Charisma isn't a trait you're born with.
Tell yourself "I can learn to be more charismatic.
2. Be present.
People feel special and important when you're fully present.
Make the person you're talking to feel like they're the only person in the world.
3. Think the best of people.
If you have a bad thought about someone, they will sense it.
You'll come across as unfriendly. Picture a halo over their head because of something good they did. It will help you treat them better.
4. Be confident.
If you're timid you won't come across as charismatic.
Walk into every room imaging you're a big gorilla.
It sounds silly, but it works!
5. Remember details about people.
Remembering something about another person shows you care.
Keep a record of what people tell you.
6. Be yourself.
Trying to be someone else isn't charismatic.
You need to be a more charismatic version of YOU.
These tips will become second nature if you work on them every day.
A couple of these tips are from the book The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane. Get that book to go deeper.
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