21 Vital Traits of the Smart Team Player Lencioni
- Jonno White
- 4 days ago
- 13 min read
Smart is the third virtue in Patrick Lencioni's ideal team player model. In The Ideal Team Player, Lencioni identifies three essential qualities that every great team member possesses: humble, hungry, and smart. But smart does not mean intellectual intelligence. It refers specifically to interpersonal intelligence, the ability to understand and navigate the dynamics of working with other people. It is what most of us would call people smarts or emotional intelligence in a team setting.
Lencioni defines smart as a person's common sense about people. Smart team players understand how their words and actions affect others. They know how to ask the right question at the right time, how to read a room, how to manage their own emotions during difficult conversations, and how to bring out the best in their colleagues. They have an intuitive sense of group dynamics that makes them effective collaborators in virtually any team setting.
The absence of people smarts on a team creates friction that no amount of technical skill can overcome. A brilliant engineer who consistently alienates colleagues, a talented marketer who cannot read social cues, or a highly driven leader who is oblivious to the impact of their communication style will all undermine team effectiveness regardless of their individual contribution. Interpersonal awareness is not a nice-to-have. It is a prerequisite for teamwork.
Below are 21 vital traits and strategies for understanding and cultivating people smarts on your team. For a complete overview of all three virtues, see our Ideal Team Player summary. If you want help building interpersonal awareness across your leadership team, reach out at jonno@consultclarity.org.

1. Smart Means People Smart, Not Book Smart
The most important clarification about Lencioni's use of "smart" is that it has nothing to do with intellectual capacity. A person can be intellectually brilliant and interpersonally clueless. Conversely, a person of average academic ability can be extraordinarily people smart. Lencioni is describing a specific kind of intelligence: the ability to understand, navigate, and positively influence interpersonal dynamics.
This distinction matters because many organisations hire primarily for intellectual horsepower and technical competence while neglecting interpersonal intelligence. The result is teams full of individually brilliant people who cannot collaborate effectively. People smarts, not IQ, is the form of intelligence that makes teamwork possible.
2. Smart People Read the Room
One of the most visible signs of people smarts is the ability to read a room. Smart team players can sense when a colleague is frustrated, when a conversation is going sideways, when the team's energy is low, and when someone has something to say but is holding back. This awareness allows them to adjust their behaviour in real time to keep the team functioning effectively.
Reading the room is not a mystical talent. It is a learned skill that comes from paying attention to others rather than being consumed by your own thoughts. Smart team players observe body language, listen to tone of voice, notice who is engaged and who has checked out, and use that information to navigate the interaction more effectively.
3. Smart Is About Awareness, Not Manipulation
There is a critical difference between being people smart and being manipulative. Smart team players use their interpersonal awareness to build genuine relationships, resolve conflicts, and help the team function better. Manipulative people use the same awareness to control others, advance their own agenda, and create political advantage. The difference lies in motive, not in the skill itself.
This is where humility becomes essential as a companion virtue. When people smarts are paired with humility, the result is a person who uses their interpersonal intelligence to serve the team. When people smarts exist without humility, the result is what Lencioni calls a Skillful Politician, someone who is effective at navigating people but does so for self-serving purposes.
4. Smart People Ask Good Questions
People smart team players are skilled at asking questions that draw out their colleagues' thinking, surface underlying concerns, and move conversations forward. They know when to ask an open-ended question that invites exploration and when to ask a direct question that demands clarity. Their questions demonstrate genuine curiosity about what others think and feel.
The quality of a team's conversations is directly influenced by the quality of the questions its members ask. Teams with people smart members have deeper, more honest, and more productive discussions because the right questions create space for honest dialogue. Teams without this skill tend to have surface-level conversations where the real issues go unaddressed.
5. Smart People Listen with Intent
Interpersonally smart team players are exceptional listeners. They do not just wait for their turn to speak. They actively process what the other person is saying, paying attention to both the content and the emotion behind the words. This quality of listening makes colleagues feel heard, which builds trust and strengthens relationships across the team.
Active listening is particularly valuable during conflict. When a colleague feels genuinely heard, even if they do not get their way, they are far more likely to commit to the team's decision. When they feel ignored or dismissed, resentment builds regardless of the outcome. People smart team players create the conditions for productive conflict by listening first.
6. Smart Without Humble Creates a Skillful Politician
Lencioni's model identifies specific problems when virtues are unbalanced. A person who is hungry and smart but not humble is a Skillful Politician. They have drive and interpersonal savvy but use both to serve their own interests. They are politically adept, know exactly how to influence people, and are often the most charming person in the room. But their charm masks self-serving ambition.
Skillful Politicians are the most dangerous of the non-ideal types because they are the hardest to identify. Their interpersonal skill makes them likeable and effective in the short term. The damage they cause, in eroded trust, political manoeuvring, and team fragmentation, only becomes visible over time. For more on how humility prevents this, see our humble team player guide.
7. Smart Without Hungry Creates a Charming Slacker
A person who is humble and smart but not hungry is what Lencioni calls a Lovable Slacker. They are pleasant, interpersonally skilled, and genuinely well-intentioned, but they lack the drive to contribute their full share. They coast on likeability while others do the heavy lifting. Their people smarts make them enjoyable to be around, which can mask their lack of productivity.
Lovable Slackers are frustrating for hungry team members who carry a disproportionate share of the workload. The challenge is that their interpersonal warmth makes it difficult to confront them. Nobody wants to criticise the person everyone likes. But failing to address the imbalance erodes the team's performance and the morale of those who are doing more than their share.
8. Smart People Manage Their Own Emotions
Interpersonal intelligence begins with self-awareness. People smart team players understand their own emotional triggers, recognise when their emotions are affecting their behaviour, and manage their responses accordingly. They do not suppress their emotions. They acknowledge them, process them, and choose how to express them in ways that are constructive rather than destructive.
This emotional self-management is especially valuable during high-stakes conversations. When tensions are high and emotions are running hot, a team member who can regulate their own response and stay focused on the issue rather than reacting to the emotion creates stability for the entire team. They become an anchor that keeps the conversation productive.
9. Look for Smart in Hiring
Assessing people smarts in an interview requires paying attention to how the candidate interacts, not just what they say. Do they show genuine interest in the interviewer as a person? Do they adjust their communication style based on the conversation? Can they describe a time when they navigated a difficult interpersonal situation? Do they demonstrate self-awareness about their own interpersonal strengths and weaknesses?
Lencioni also recommends involving multiple interviewers and comparing notes on how the candidate interacted with each person. People smart candidates adapt naturally to different communication styles. Interpersonally unaware candidates interact with everyone the same way, regardless of the social context or the other person's preferences.
10. Smart People Give and Receive Feedback Well
Giving feedback is an interpersonal skill. People smart team players know how to deliver honest feedback in a way that the recipient can hear and act on. They consider timing, framing, tone, and the recipient's emotional state. They are direct without being harsh and compassionate without being evasive. The result is that their feedback actually produces change rather than defensiveness.
Equally important, people smart team players receive feedback gracefully. They do not become defensive, dismiss the input, or counterattack. They listen, process, and respond thoughtfully. This receptivity to feedback is what makes them continuously improvable, a quality that benefits not just the individual but the entire team.
11. Smart Is the Most Learnable of the Three Virtues
Lencioni acknowledges that all three virtues exist on a spectrum and that some people are naturally more interpersonally aware than others. However, he argues that people smarts is the most learnable of the three virtues. With coaching, feedback, and deliberate practice, most people can significantly improve their interpersonal awareness and skill.
This is encouraging because it means that a team member who struggles with people smarts is not a lost cause. With investment and support, they can develop the interpersonal skills that teamwork requires. Tools like DISC profiles, StrengthsFinder, and Working Genius assessments can accelerate this development by giving people a language for understanding different communication styles and working preferences.
12. Smart People Navigate Conflict Constructively
Conflict is inevitable on any team. What distinguishes healthy teams from unhealthy ones is how conflict is navigated. People smart team players engage in conflict constructively: they advocate for their position passionately while remaining genuinely open to other perspectives. They separate the person from the issue, disagree without becoming disagreeable, and help the team reach better decisions through honest debate.
Interpersonally unaware team players turn productive conflict into personal battles. They take challenges to their ideas as personal attacks, read negative intent into neutral statements, and escalate rather than resolve. Their lack of people smarts makes productive conflict impossible and drives the team toward either artificial harmony or destructive confrontation. For more on productive conflict, see our guide.
13. Smart People Understand Different Communication Styles
Not everyone communicates the same way. Some people process externally and need to talk through their ideas. Others process internally and need time to think before responding. Some people are direct communicators who appreciate bluntness. Others are indirect communicators who read meaning into tone and context. People smart team players recognise these differences and adjust their approach accordingly.
Frameworks like DISC profiling help teams develop this awareness systematically. When team members understand that a colleague's directness is not rudeness, or that another colleague's silence is processing rather than disagreement, interpersonal friction decreases dramatically. People smarts is partly about recognising that other people experience the world differently from you.
14. Smart People Build Genuine Relationships
People smart team players invest in genuine relationships with their colleagues. They know about each other's lives, interests, and challenges. They celebrate personal milestones and offer support during difficult times. These relationships are not transactional. They are authentic expressions of care that create the relational foundation every high-performing team needs.
Genuine relationships build the trust that enables everything else in Lencioni's model: vulnerability, productive conflict, commitment, accountability, and results focus. When team members genuinely care about each other, they are more willing to be honest, more likely to hold each other accountable, and more committed to collective outcomes. For more on trust, see our vulnerability based trust guide.
15. Smart People Know When to Speak and When to Listen
Timing is a critical component of people smarts. Smart team players know when to offer their perspective and when to hold back. They know when a colleague needs advice and when they need to vent. They know when the team needs a provocative question and when it needs silence to process. This sense of timing comes from paying attention to others rather than being preoccupied with their own agenda.
Poor timing undermines even the best intentions. A brilliant observation delivered at the wrong moment falls flat. Constructive feedback offered when emotions are raw lands as criticism. People smart team players read the moment and calibrate their contribution to what the situation requires.
16. Model People Smarts from the Top
As with humility and hunger, the leader must model people smarts. When the leader demonstrates interpersonal awareness, asks thoughtful questions, listens actively, manages their emotions, and navigates conflict constructively, it sets the standard for the entire team. When the leader is interpersonally clumsy, the team will either mirror that behaviour or protect themselves from it.
Modelling people smarts does not require being extroverted or naturally charismatic. It requires being attentive, self-aware, and genuinely interested in how your behaviour affects others. Quiet, introverted leaders can be extraordinarily people smart if they are attentive to others and intentional about their interactions.
17. Smart People Recognise Unspoken Dynamics
Every team has dynamics that operate beneath the surface: unspoken tensions, implicit alliances, unexpressed frustrations, and hidden assumptions. People smart team players are attuned to these undercurrents. They notice when two colleagues are avoiding each other, when a team member is disengaged, or when a decision has created resentment that nobody is voicing.
Recognising unspoken dynamics is only useful if it leads to action. People smart team players do not just observe. They intervene constructively, either by addressing the dynamic directly, raising it with the leader, or creating space for the conversation that needs to happen. This willingness to surface what is hidden is one of the most valuable contributions a team member can make.
18. Smart People Adapt to Different Situations
Interpersonal intelligence is contextual. The communication style that works in a brainstorming session is different from what works in a performance review. The approach that suits a crisis is different from what suits a celebration. People smart team players adapt their style to the situation, demonstrating the flexibility that effective teamwork requires.
Adaptability is the practical expression of interpersonal awareness. It is not enough to recognise what the situation requires. You must also adjust your behaviour to match. People smart team players do this naturally, shifting between advocacy and inquiry, between directness and diplomacy, and between leading and following as the moment demands.
19. Address People Smarts Gaps with Coaching
When a team member lacks people smarts, the leader should address it with specific, behavioural coaching rather than vague advice. Instead of "You need to be more aware of others," try "In the meeting today, you interrupted Sarah three times. I need you to let colleagues finish their thoughts before responding." Specific behavioural feedback gives the person something concrete to work on.
Coaching for people smarts also benefits from tools that create shared language. When the team has completed a DISC assessment or Working Genius exercise together, interpersonal feedback can reference the framework. "Remember that James is a high C who needs time to process. Give him space before expecting a response." These frameworks make interpersonal coaching practical and non-personal.
20. Smart People Make Everyone Else Better
The ultimate test of people smarts is whether your presence makes the team better. People smart team players elevate the performance of everyone around them. They draw out quiet colleagues, calm heated exchanges, build bridges between conflicting perspectives, and create the psychological safety that allows everyone to contribute their best thinking.
This multiplier effect is why people smarts matters so much for team effectiveness. A technically brilliant individual contributor adds their own output to the team. A people smart team member amplifies the output of everyone they work with. The value they create is exponential rather than additive.
21. Smart Completes the Ideal Team Player
People smarts is the virtue that completes Lencioni's ideal team player model. Humility ensures that a person's drive and skill are directed toward the team's benefit. Hunger provides the energy and initiative that high performance requires. Smart provides the interpersonal awareness that makes collaboration effective. Without any one of these three virtues, the team player is incomplete.
A person who is humble and hungry but not smart is what Lencioni calls an Accidental Mess-Maker. They have good intentions and strong work ethic but consistently create interpersonal problems because they lack awareness of how their behaviour affects others. Adding people smarts to humility and hunger produces the complete package: a team player who is selfless, driven, and socially intelligent.
What to Do Next
Start by asking your team members for honest feedback about your interpersonal impact. Ask specific questions: "Do I listen well in meetings? Do I read the room accurately? Is there anything about my communication style that makes collaboration harder?" Their answers will reveal where your people smarts need development. Then invest in that development through deliberate practice and ongoing feedback.
For your team, consider running a DISC workshop or Working Genius session to build shared language around interpersonal styles. These frameworks accelerate the development of people smarts by making interpersonal dynamics visible and discussable. To book a session, email jonno@consultclarity.org.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does Lencioni mean by smart in the ideal team player?
Smart refers to interpersonal intelligence, not intellectual capacity. It is a person's common sense about people: the ability to understand how their words and actions affect others, to read group dynamics, to manage their own emotions, and to navigate relationships effectively within a team setting.
Is smart the same as emotional intelligence?
Lencioni's concept of smart overlaps significantly with emotional intelligence but is more specifically focused on team dynamics. It is less about general emotional awareness and more about the practical ability to work well with others in a collaborative setting: reading rooms, managing conflict, and building relationships.
Can people smarts be developed?
Yes, and Lencioni considers it the most learnable of the three virtues. Coaching, feedback, behavioural tools like DISC and Working Genius, and deliberate practice can all significantly improve a person's interpersonal awareness and skill. The key is specific, behavioural feedback rather than vague advice.
What is a Skillful Politician in Lencioni's model?
A Skillful Politician is someone who is hungry and smart but not humble. They are driven and interpersonally skilled but use those abilities to serve their own interests rather than the team's. They are politically adept but ultimately corrosive to team culture because their charm masks self-serving ambition.
What is an Accidental Mess-Maker?
An Accidental Mess-Maker is someone who is humble and hungry but not smart. They have good intentions and a strong work ethic but consistently create interpersonal problems because they lack awareness of how their behaviour affects others. They mean well but leave a trail of unintended damage.
How do you assess people smarts in a job interview?
Observe how the candidate interacts, not just what they say. Do they show genuine interest in others? Do they adjust their communication style? Can they describe navigating difficult interpersonal situations? Involve multiple interviewers and compare how the candidate adapted to different people.
About the Author
Jonno White is a Brisbane-based leadership consultant, bestselling author, and Certified Working Genius Facilitator specialising in organisational health. His book, Step Up or Step Out, has sold over 10,000 copies globally and equips leaders with practical strategies for difficult conversations and conflict resolution.
Jonno hosts The Leadership Conversations Podcast, reaching listeners in over 150 countries across 230+ episodes. He works with CEOs, school principals, and executive teams across Australia, the USA, UK, Singapore, Canada, and India, delivering keynotes, workshops, executive team offsites, and facilitated strategic planning sessions using Patrick Lencioni's frameworks.
As a Certified Working Genius Facilitator, Jonno helps teams build both relational health and operational effectiveness. His services include Working Genius facilitation, DISC workshops, StrengthsFinder sessions, executive coaching, and leadership team development. To discuss how Jonno can help your team develop people smarts, email jonno@consultclarity.org.
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